Hi Shirley and Steve,

I am not one to have let a man walk over me however, a few months back I met someone who made me let go of the guard I had held up in protection of my heart.  In November, I met a guy 11 years my senior and he seemed ideal despite my self-professed problem with being hyper-sexual he saw me as the intellectual female that I am and he treated me spectacularly.  My safety mattered to him and he didn’t mind letting me know.  Fast forward six months and I lay here crying because he claims he doesn’t want a relationship.  He knows that I am in love with him and he uses this because he knows that is my weakness.  He’ll call upon me for sexual encounters and then makes me tell him I love him during sex.  I fell in love with the man who is my protector many months back who told me things that I had never heard before.  Where did that person go? I keep trying to break away and the cycle continues because I am weak for this man.  

What am I to do?

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